Leaving the past in the past can be hard to do, especially when dealing with situations that make you feel sad or angry, but you know it's best to move on, you just have to figure out how. There is no easy answer or quick fix to moving forward from difficult situations- it's all about being strong and remaining the author of your own story.
When you read a book, no two pages are the same, correct? Life should be this same way. You shouldn't repeat your actions if they get you no where. Repeating the same actions produces the same results. If you want to move forward to happiness, you must make a change. In books, stories progress, so allow your life to do the same. There are chapters of life. Characters come in and out of your story, there are boring parts and there are insanely dramatic parts- that is life. At the end of the story, typically, conflicts are resolved and people end up okay. That is exactly how life works. I always say that there is no other option but for you to be okay.
I stated in my last blog that in order to move forward from negative situations, you must review, reflect, and recalculate. So, just like when you read a book: you may have to flip back a few pages to review what happened, then you reflect on what happened to see how those instances will impact the coming pages of the book, then you recalculate your mind to be in the moment of the current storyline of the book.
You are the author of your own book, so make your story worth reading...
-B
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